
arlet aribau
libidinal magic
beauty as power…
… command with grace
As an artist, elite dominatrix, and untameable Woman, I walk in many circles, and live many lives.
I have always been aware of the particular type of magnetism I possess. My presence makes people stop and stare.
You’ll find this to be true when at a Michelin star restaurant, in a small corner of one of Barcelona’s cocktail bars, or when your gaze is downcast as you prostrate before Me.

It is a valuable way to spend your time,
on your knees, in front of a formidable,
beautiful Woman.
The key to tapping into the richness of life is to find yourself in the orbit of people who capture a certain magic for you (and who command that magic in return).
With years of experience traversing the BDSM and kink scenes, I have come to know the difference between accumulation and experience, between encounter and exploit. I have also come to know that the key to indulgence is to live through the senses, not through what people think of you. That contrary to what we are taught, indulgence is an essential part of life.

Time with Me goes well beyond the scope of a bounded experience; you will leave satiated, yet craving more.
Can you feel the pull of My power?
I weave a seamless web of intoxicating femininity, blending the sharp edge of My tongue with a focus on corporeality and the senses. Sometimes capricious, sometimes maternal, My intuitive nature helps to tap deep into your desire for devotional submission.
Who is Arlet Aribau?
Your existential dominatrix
I redefine what elite domination means.
Your path to a creative awakening
Sensuality and sexuality are the highest forms of creativity. Yet, we are socialised into sexual prudishness, punished for our desires. The shame and low self-worth that stems from this stifles us and our erotic power. I can help you bring that to the surface.
Your Muse, My way
The artistic world has been mistaken. The muses are not - have never been - simply resources to be pulled from. Muses are active creators in their own lives. Beauty and passion are sources of inspiration for us all to draw from. Sometimes all you need is permission. Submitting to My Power will enrich your life in untold ways.
Redefining Exclusivity
You won’t find me on any directories except for KLE [hyperlink]. Like a muse who might visit you in a vision, I am hard to catch, and won’t be called simply to anyone. Are you worth My gaze?
A unique blend of offerings
I offer elite domination and companionship, crafted with My own blend of artistry, intellect, fire. Alongside this, My sensuality coaching is perfect for those who are looking to invest in their journey as kinky beginners.
A Kink Connoisseur
With years practising BDSM both personally and professionally, I have honed my craft to perfection. Head more to My blog [hyperlink] to read more about My practice. Connection can only be forged with the willingness and collaboration of both (or more) parties. Hence, I only see people who have demonstrated a keen interest in devoting as much energy as Myself.
I live an eclectic, busy life, and am no stranger to dancing in different worlds. I love the rush of the contradictions between these parts of my life; travelling the world nurturing My artistic practice, and delving into the hidden secrets of the city’s underworld, letting the intoxicating rush of secret desires rise within Me.
You’ll also find me entertaining lovers and friends, heading to art galleries, sipping a glass of Cava (I am, after all, Catalan through and through), and searching, always, for the next opportunity to pursue pleasure.
I travel between London and Barcelona (if you’re further afield get in touch to discuss an exclusive travel arrangement).
I live an interesting life, and I might just be interested in you, if you win Me over…
The Muse Experience
Through this knowledge and experience, came the Muse Experience. These offerings honour My power and the years of experience that I bring to my life as Arlet. Offering elite, holistic domination sessions and companionship, my approach is playful yet discerning. Together we can play with pain and relief, control and surrender, taboo and release.
I understand the importance of libidinal and erotic energy in our lives - what great artist hasn’t called upon the world of desire to fuel their practice? I am all too aware of how the current world pulls us away from connection; from ourselves, from each other.
I bring to every session a level of wisdom and curiosity which - alongside My innate power - creates room for playing safely but exploratively, expansively, otherworldly.
When you’re ready to begin your journey, step through the portal.

My style: Psychic Domination
Domination begins in the mind long before it manifests itself in the body. I am experienced at scouring the depths of your psyche, pulling on those things that you have yearned for, those things that have lain dormant for a long time.
Is it the exquisite release of pain that your body so craves? The sweet, mind-calming relief of relinquishing control over to a ferociously beautiful, graceful femmedomme? Are you longing for the hot rush of shame as your secret desires are exposed and revealed? Are you yearning to be overwhelmed, physically and emotionally?
The Lover
Just like the lover archetype, I have a natural affinity to sensuality, embodiment, intimacy and lust. I understand the libidinal to be electric. Being highly connected to My body, I know that high-class kinks doesn't simply engage the corporeal. But it can be a tool to connect you to your most innate desire to submit to a powerful woman like Me. The lover is playful, she is passionate, creative. Just like Her, I pour My heart into everything I do. I crave connection - as two souls, how we connect is just as important as what we do together; in fact, it’s the bedrock for our experimentation.
The Sage
The Sage offers us guidance on the path to self-actualisation. And I can take the lead.
I am a curious intellectual, and the erotic as power has always fascinated Me. My deep thirst for knowledge is incorporated into My life as Arlet. Being the academic I am, I use the power of self-reflection and a natural-born inquisitive mind to expand beyond the confines of the day-to-day. Are you ready to join Me?
While not necessarily strict, I don’t suffer fools gladly, and have both the personal and professional experience to listen to My gut instinct when she speaks. You don’t need to be experienced, but you do need to be invested in your learning. Taking safety and power dynamics seriously opens up the door for the most fun two adults can have. I play SSC, always. You can learn more about how I implement these into My Experiences via My blog.
The Creator
Above all else, I fear mediocrity. I want to create things of value that will endure, and the Creator in Me thrums with possibility. You’ll find that My artistic flair touches every aspect of our interaction, and my inquisitive insatiable mind drives Me to explore the depths of our potential (and yours, too…).
I love to push boundaries, questioning what is possible. I favour intellectually stimulating conversation over small-talk of insignificance. A non-conformist through and through, I thrive in the underground culture of European cities. I want art for arts sake, beauty, freedom.
With my inexhaustible imagination, we’ll click if you’re seeking something beyond the ordinary.
The Innovator
Always one step ahead of the curve, I get on best with those who are also curious, innovative, ahead of their time. I have an intuitive sense of what makes people tick, which I bring to every one of My femmedomme experiences. Step into the warmth of My visionary power and let’s be curious about what unfolds.